It is normal for a romantic relationship to fail or end abruptly, leaving little or no room for question. While you think you have the man of your dreams, he could be sending signals that leave you guessing about his feelings for you.
This puts you in a crisis because you don’t know if he is interested in you or not. Understanding signs he is not interested in you is painful. On the other hand, it’s healthy because you’ll get past a dead-end relationship and move on with your life.
Below are 10 signs which tells your man is NOT interested in you like he used to.
Communication: If your guy does not pick up or return calls, texts or emails in time, it is a sure sign he is not interested in you anymore. You’ll find yourself making excuses for him like lack of connection or low battery because you still love him.
Availability: Your man is always busy to set aside or find time to spend with you. He is always making excuses that he has other plans. In addition, he just never makes plans more than a day out, and you are more of a convenience than relationship material.
Excuses: Your man has a list of reasons why he’s not into the relationship. Most of these reasons leave little room for debate like hurting by an ex. He may also claim that he is busy focusing on his career. These excuses leave him less time to dedicate to the relationship. Honestly, he would find solutions and not excuses if he were interested in you anymore.
Intimacy: Intimacy is important in a relationship – it strengthens the bond between partners. If it becomes less or stops suddenly, something is wrong in the relationship. It’s painful to find out your guy does not want to stay close to you or even have sex with you.
Social: If he does not invite you to social events, it is a sure sign he is not interested in you anymore. He does not find time to meet your family and friends or introduce you to his.
Doesn’t Mind What and How He Talks: The way he talks and what he talks about can tell if he is interested in you anymore. If he starts talking to you the way he talks to his friends or other men, it is a sure sign that you do not qualify in the list of women he can flirt with or go after. In addition, he is always talking about politics and other dry topics even during intimate time.
Gaze Through You: When your relationship was new, your guy would not mind staring in your eyes for hours. If he no longer makes eye contact with you and gazes through you, these are just enough signs he is not interested in you anymore.
Future and Clarity: He doesn’t bring up the future. He never talks about having a long weekend, vacation, wedding or family with you. If he is ambivalent (has mixed feelings) and doesn’t clarify his feelings or intents, he is not interested in you anymore.
Other Women: Out of the blue he starts talking about other women while showing obvious interest. In addition, he stays close or even start contact with one of his exes. When you see this sign, it is time to let go.
Your Instincts and Signals: Follow your instincts, and if you think something is wrong, it is wrong. Your friends are most likely seeing the signs and would want to tell you. True friends are always there for one another. Go ahead and ask your friends about the signs they are seeing.
Credit: Health.in4mnation.com
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